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HOW CONSENSUAL CAME TO BE

i was once a director in big, global ORGANIsATIONS.

Until I heard my true soul calling: tantric embodiment.

I began my journey as an academic with a doctorate in philosophy and as an LGBTQI activist. After decades of directing international NGOs and 15 years of training as a coach, mediator, constellator and shiatsu therapist, I followed a divine call to leave everything behind and found a school of embodiment in which people heal through embodied pleasure and spirituality.


Overcoming 30 years of depression and finally arriving fully in my transgender body with tantric practices, I founded ConSensual and invented tantric BDSI: combining decades of experience in BDSM with spirituality, tantric wisdom, and trauma sensitive body work.


I blend neuroscience, embodiment tools, traditional Chinese medicine, clear voyance, and spirituality. I specialize in magical energy body work, helping individuals heal through expanding their pleasure capacity. And YES that comes also with ropes, floggers, impact play and energetic touch.


Welcome to ConSensual!

facilitators

Jonathan beger

founder consensual & head-facilitator

“The serenity of Love embodies a profound Life lived in the Spirit of the Divine”

  • ICF accredited coach
  • Trainer
  • Medial coach
  • Mediator (court registered in Belgium)
  • Shiatsu Therapist
  • Body worker (Gaia Method)


… and many more, I love learning forever!

linde campe

co-facilitator

“Love living and therefore growing; love is growing and therefore expanding; there is no limit to the expansion of love, for its source is divine and thus its expansion is perfect.” - Hazrat Inayat Khan, The Sufi Message

  • Qualified body worker
  • Shamanic trainer
  • Sei-Ki energy worker
  • Tantric masseur


… and mostly led by the above to simply spread sexual energy for healing. Come and experience the power of angelic energy.

Icon for mission: Inspiring individuals to unlock their divine potential and embrace their soul essence through transformative practices that nurture safety, connection, and well-being.

our MISSION

Our mission is to inspire individuals to unlock their divine potential and embrace their true soul essence through transformative practices that nurture somatic safety, authentic connection, and holistic well-being.

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Values

Our core values reflect the heart of our mission to create transformative and meaningful experiences for you.


Below we explain our most important values.

  • SAFETY

    We will do everything we can to provide a deeply safe container. We see every person as safe and already saved. Our ConSensual rules are created with your safety in mind.


    Yet, do expect us to challenge your comfort zone, help you step out of ‘mind monkey safety’ that does not correspond to your true essence and potential. 

  • EMBODIMENT

    We value embodiment above any mind game, talking, or psychologising. We will always listen, but call out the story and get you to show your process somatically. It is about getting better at feeling, not being stuck to the mind game of feeling better.


    The only way in is through your body and the only way out is through your body. We welcome the mind’s confusion - may it last for months - and help you discover the depth of the somatic shift.

  • Teaching from divine inspiration

    We listen to your soul whispering, and look beyond the obvious or the story told. We channel for you, and sometime it might make little sense to you or us or take time to become clear. Never ask Jonathan later what he said, he often cannot remember as it just flew through.


    Feel free to project, be invited with your anger, just allow the possibility of something magically happening. We never seek to teach what we do not live and experience ourselves, we do not ask you to get what we have not gotten. And yet, the truth might sometimes lie beyond all our comprehension.

  • COMPASSION

    We truly take everyone who comes to Casa LoJeMa and ConSensual into our hearts and we are 100% present to everybody. We stand for your divine potential. We will ask the best of you while fully getting what you are going through.


    So YES, we will trigger you ‘sh...less’, shamelessly pulling the old beloved pattern from under your feet, challenge you and hold you through everything. And NO, we do not want you to go out of your somatic consent, in fact we want your NO - the true essence of your NO.

Our core team

One of the amazing specialities of ConSensual – nowhere else to be found – is the ratio between team and participants. Each retreat is accompanied by 8-9 assistants. Our team at ConSensual comprises dedicated and experienced professionals who support the facilitators in guiding participants through transformative journeys of healing and self-discovery.


Each team member brings unique professional expertise and has thoroughly learnt the teachings and practices of ConSensual, ensuring a safe and enriching environment. There are currently 24 Assistants on the ConSensual team, most are on their Pathway VII journey with us. We currently have 7 core team members, who we introduce below.

MISSION STATEMENT

Our mission is to guide individuals on a transformative journey of embodiment, expansion, and deep connection to their true soul essence.


We create a safer and nurturing environment where each person can unlock their divine potential and step into the fullness of their being.


Through embodied practices and teachings, we cultivate deep somatic safety and foster authentic connections that honour the wholeness of each individual.


By weaving the magic of beyond-wisdom into our work, we inspire holistic well-being and empower individuals to live in alignment with their true essence.


Together, we illuminate the path to greater authenticity, connection, and the profound beauty of our shared humanity.

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Floggers used in ConSensual practices, symbolizing the connection between power, surrender, and conscious touch.
Ropes used in ConSensual for bondage practices, photographed by Sam Kauranne (Studio ES), representing connection, trust, and conscious embodiment.
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