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School and Temple of Embodiment, Healing, Power, Surrender and Spirituality. Practice Conscious, Consensual Sensuality!

We - Linde and Jonathan - welcome you to Censensual with open hearts and arms. ConSensual is housed in our healing and retreat center Casa LoJeMa, which is lit by the Energy Enhancement System (a scalar wave room that brings the deepest relaxation for body, mind, and soul).

Jonathan founded ConSensual and invented tantric BDSI as his deepest soul calling after a long pathway with a PhD, directorships in NGOs, and 20 years of formal qualifications in coaching, energy body work, mediation, Shiatsu, Shamanism, channeling, a long pathway in tantra, and last but not least 20 years of experience in queer BDSM. Linde joined in 2022 bringing a deep shamanic flavor and a divine music design gift. Together we opened Casa LoJeMa and Energy Enhancement Healing Center in 2024. After a quite challenging lives we both found the deep wisdom of tantric practice with its path of conscious spiritual engagement and full embodiment. We live a tantric and spiritual life together in Casa LoJeMa, focussing on conscious relating and deep intimacy. The secret is simple: we have trained our bodies to enter into pleasure energy state at any one moment (even touching air suffices).

With tantric practice, we all can expand the body to hold and circulate more life force energy. This in turn enables us to stay spiritually in motion and connected the whole time. Therefore, we are able to relate to another in full authentic intimacy, without mutually feeding our pain bodies and energetically putting us into a joint connection with Presence itself. Tantra is the highest art of bringing our body temple with us into meditation and connection to the divine (or whatever is meaningful to you). It is an art of mental, emotional and physical discipline, that allows to connect to our birth right of sourcing and using our kundalini or life force energy to experience our wholeness, deep joy, and connection to others. By putting the body into energetic expansion and pleasure A wave state, our brain survival mechanisms seize.

Would you like to give yourself the gift of expanding your soul into your body, creating deep seated safety and learning how to stay in deep presence for as long as possible? How about finding your authentic power to stand in life and your authentic ability to surrender to life's calling and flow? Are you ready to heal and integrate past trauma so that expansion can happen without ongoing contraction, fears, sadness and 'brain survival modus'?  How about experiencing inward expansion that is not in the head but actually embodied? Enlarging your container for 'bliss energy' and being able to stay in 'pleasure mode' for longer periods allowing your creative life power to emerge more? 

If so then join us into a consecrated temple space of learning and celebrating conscious, consent-based sensuality (ConSensual). We will support you in finding the sacred temple of your body and soul and to embody that temple in return, giving you your 'landing pad' from where to experience true intimacy and connection with yourself, your partner, and the divine.

We offer an annual  4 step Pathway Journey with Tantric BDSI (expansion, healing and spirituality, via tantric practice, shamanism, voyaging, shiatsu trauma body work, Christian mysticism and the sacred tools for bondage, power/surrender, and impact play techniques and practices),we also offer ConSensual Temple nights with workshops. You may also book individual trauma or tantric related Body Work or Shiatsu, Constellation, and Medial Sessions or come as partners to heal and increase your intimacy and connection.  At ConSensual all bodies are deeply loved and welcome – explicitly including non-binary, trans, intersex and other queer folk.

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  • I am so grateful I dived into these pathways. Each one of them have held one of the most profound experiences of my life. From facing and going into the deepest darkness of true ego death to the highest realms of ecstacy, power and bliss.
    Thank you so much Jonathan & the A-BDSI-Team to create this pressure-cooker-safe-space where all these processes get to happen in a safe non-judgemental atmosphere.
    Aho, I bow before all of you Goddesses & Gods ? ? ? ?

  • How Jonathan and Linde put their mind body and soul into this work is simply awe-inspiring. There are tantra retreats and there are the Consensual retreats of Jonathan, that are in a class of their own in all positive meanings of the expression. The unique marriage of tantra and BDSI being taught at Consensual is simply put ground breaking for a whole new and different approach to sexuality and spirituality.

    Sam A
  • I did all the pathways in a row, never expected that it will be bring me so much and that I would have grown this way. It makes me feel more secure about myself, my sexuality and my kundalini energy in general. I am so grateful that Jonathan and Linde’s work has come into my life, for me it feels like home to be part of this family. So much love.

  • My journey through Pathway I-V: I felt so welcome, there was a lot of processing, yet this Journey is not about pain, technics or tools, it is a SAFE playground for emotions, feelings, desires that are ‘difficult’ to show to the outside world. After I did all the retreats, I am showing them more in the ‘real’ world. I am not done yet and I will join you next year again!

  • This Pathway Journey will change your life forever, there is no way back J

  • This journey of Pathways was so eye-opening in so many ways. Jonathan, Linde and the team are amazing and caring, creating this wondrous space of safe exploration in digestible bits, where everybody can feel heartfelt welcome, regardless of their gender, orientation or relationship status. The retreats are super approachable for people with zero experience in tantra but also for new dimensions for sensual practitioners, thanks to Jonathan’s unique vision and tools of BDSI.  ❣️

  • I went through all the Pathways and I find it a deep fulfilling journey and very naturally flowing from one pathway to the next. They are carefully designed to really bring our spiritual and shadow parts into union through experiencing all shades of our sexual nature. I feel very grateful for it is a deeply healing expansive journey, really a path a recommend for everyone on the tantric path who seeks transformation through working with the body.

  • During this journey I learned to step into my power! I started feeling very vulnerable and powerless. Today I can state my boundaries and I know they will be respected because I am worth to be respected. It gave me the gift of being in true connection with others, showing myself and being powerful in my vulnerability.

  • The Pathway I to IV, as designed by Jonathan, provided me with a deep insight in how I relate to myself, my partner and the world around me. The phased build-up of practices and experiences during the events helped me expand in conscious relating, exercising power and control in both personal and business situations and maintain my presence in challenging settings and environments. Above that it made me a better friend and lover as I could finally grasp and embody a lot of tantric and energetic principals heart over the past years.

  • I completed Consensual Pathways, an intense annual training around group dynamics focusing on healing from (sexual) trauma, dominance, surrender and spirituality. This was such an intense but beautiful journey, so profound for us as an individual and together as a couple ?

  • What a Journey and Experience… Loooooord! 🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀 Experiencing full dominance and the devotion that can come with submission lead me to a complete new dimension, a new way to evolution.

  • I am so grateful to be on this path with you! ♥️ Being able to witness the magic unfold, to provide the space for people to go deep, to release, to expand and to see the divine in themselves. ♥️ And not just the participants, also the team gets the opportunity to grow and expand with you.  ♥️ Thank you for being you, and bringing this to the world to let love shine in everyone.

  • Past the stories, issues, fears, shame…in 9 months’ time to liberation, I danced, played, laughed, got healed, freed the Goddess in me, the Goddess that already was there but was afraid to show herself. Every woman and every person should follow this Journey of Pathways en be part of this amazing family. Deep respect for every part in us is what connect us to each other. Very powerful experience.  ✨

  • Wow ♥️ what a sensual journey into our soul’s depth . It's so great how working with the right tools and the right people can change our reality and our well-being. I deeply support and appreciate what you do for the world and I am grateful that your assistants also have opportunities to develop with you. What an emotional path, caring and empathy what you offer us .Thank you for the opportunity to be a witness of this bliss, the deep changes of participants that fill my heart with light and love ♥️.


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