Pathway II: Into Healing and Integration

The Pathway into Healing and Integration is the next step of delving deeper into ConSensual and focuses on enlarging your temple and embodying more. In a nutshell going really deep on consent, releasing trauma in the body, and getting so much better at feeling. You will discover how making energy in your (energetic) body move and flow purposefully, playfully, innocently, can effectively deal with the mind’s anxieties, depressive states, and the distance we all produce between us. Pleasure energy is the most effective tool of all to explore your path into embodiment, connection, consent, and integration of what stands in your way to experience your full pleasure capacity. But only once your body is safe and can start trusting YOU again to not overstep its consent.

Deep love and connection come with the ability to feel deeply and for that we need to stop wanting to feel better and get a heck of a lot better at feeling. Our emotional bodies have all sorts of old imprints that create reactions = energy blockages. We do not need to understand the story behind them to unblock them and become able to use the energy previously stuck. Emotion is just this: energy in motion! Tantric BDSI is about pleasure for sure, but maybe, more importantly, about unblocking stuck imprints, coming into flow, experiencing deeper, and allowing full connection in consent to another and eventually to the divine (in us and the other). 

The Pathway into Healing and Integration is a key step on the pathway journey: first we find our energetic and physical blockages, releasing trauma via the body, learning that healing is not something we do but something we get when we allow to be with what we feel and integrate it. We will guide you through deep body work, helping you to find your body's seedling of safety, and digging deep into your consent. You will have the opportunity to do deep healing work via fantasy play, replacing trauma with an experience of consent and pleasure; releasing anger and power impact, falling into healing surrender in ropes, and playing to your hearts desires.and integrating it all with sound and filling your cup.. So, in short: more ‘shit out’ for expanding our body's capacity to hold and circulate pleasure energy that will allow us to be much more intimately connected to ourselves, others, and eventually spirit. .

Pathway II - IV  Retreats start on a Thursday morning and end on Sunday around 17:00. After registration and payment you will receive all necessary information on location, accommodation, food and what to bring and prepare. ConSensual retreats are held in our own Casa LoJeMa (near Leuven), a beautiful 1000 spuare meter old farm, easily accessible by public transport and with a big parking. Large parks and beautiful nature invites for walks during breaks just a couple of streets behind Casa LoJeMa. We will be working in the large temple hall. Casa LoJeMa has beautiful, simple, and nicely designed accommodation for 18 - 20 participants in mostly shared accomodation. Not all participants can stay at the house and we give the accomodation on a first come first serve basis. There are hotels and B&Bs in driving distance. We retain the right to change the venue if necessary.

Next Retreats:

21 to 24 November 2024


09 to 12 Janauary 2025



640,- Euros including breaks and breakfast, plus accomodation and food in the venue (between 45,- and 60,- ppn + ca 130,- for food).

If you feel the calling to join for the whole Pathway Journey 2025, then register with a 10% discount. If you register for the package before your Pathway I we will give you a 10% discount via your accomodation costs.

First round Pathway Journey 2024/25 (21-24 Nov 24; 13 to 16 Feb; 24 to 27 April 25).


Second round Pathway Journey 2025 (9-12 Jan; 20-23 March; 15-18 May 25) 


If you buy a package but need to swap one of the dates between the rounds you may contact us, we will do our best.



  • 'Consensual is one of the most beautiful things I ever experienced. You won’t believe the magic unless you come and experience it for yourself. I now have found my authentic self, limitless and free!'

  • 'I’ve done already some work and retreats. But this was the safest of the safest so I was safe enough to touch and heal trauma of birth and early years. It felt as I’ve finally landed in this life with my full potential'

  • 'This first of the pathways (healing and integration) was amazing, it opened me, all I needed to do is go through my trauma and land in my pleasure.'

  • 'Just good SHIT!'

  • 'I liked the sequence of exercises, the way it was build up. The openness and vulnerability of the facilitators and assistants. I also liked the flexibility to allow for things that come up and give it space (even if it was not according to schedule). Going in to get your Gold.'


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