Tantric BDSI Temple Parties:

The ConSensual temple parties are primarily for those who are ConSensual graduates. If you are new to ConSensual and want to explore this, you are also very welcome. Before you register it would be good if you send us a mail telling us what your background is so that we can help you assess whether this space will be safe and expansive for you.

Come and enjoy the atmosphere, love, and connection of ConSensual, expand into more embodiment, play to your hearts’ desires, find others topractice with during this night and go into bliss, healing, flight or pleasure together. The temple is not a workshop but a free temple play space. However, we will always create an introductory practice time to fully land in your body and meet the energies present. Linde, Jonathan and team members will hold space and create the safety and expansion field for you. We are there to hold the space, help you negotiate, answer a question, maybe play with you, but we will not process individuals. Participation is on your own turf and responsibility.

We will usually offer a workshop on that same day for deeper exploration and practice. Those workshops are either given by Linde & Jonathan or one of the experienced professional team members of ConSensual and cover a wide range of practices, skills, and experiences. Mostly relating to topics within the field of tantric BDSI, but sometimes we also put on pure tantra, body or breath work, journeying or other things with different teachers.

Start of Workshop: 14:30 to 18:00 (arrival as of 14:00 please, we will start sharp, door closes)

Start of temple at 19:30 sharp with a joint ritual to allow you to reconnect, open up and feel into your body.(arrival as of 19:00 please, we will start sharp door closes)

End: latest 1:00 am, spaceholding stops at 12:00

Food: we will provide ample light snacks, water, and tea. You need to have eaten your evening meal before the temple though, there is no proper meal provided. If you attend the workshop bring ready made food with you to eat before the temple starts. Please remember ConSensual is a drug and alcohol free space!

What to bring: your sexy outfits, house shoes and socks for the tatami in the temple (no shoes! sorry your heals need to stay at home); your toys, a blanket, and a towel to cover mattrasses is a must! Have a fully sealable water bottle with you (no cups in the temple space).

Where? At Casa LoJeMA, the home of ConSensual

Accomodation: we have 9 beds available in 'Heaven' (above the temple space), on a first come first serve basis, the rooms of Casa LoJeMa are not open for temple parties. You HAVE to bring a sheet, your duvet or sleeping bag and a pillow. Costs: 30,- pppn. Latest check-out time 11:00 (out of the house).

Costs: 80,- Euros for Temple Party (including snacks) and 60,- Euros for the workshop, payable in advance on a bank account your receive on the registration form..

Numbers: 25 participants maximum

Next Temple Parties:

25 May 2024

Workshop: Shibari with Sam! A jewel not to be missed with the most present divinely inspired Shibari master we have ever met.You find info on Sam on our team page.

This workshop will introduce you to the Japanese bondage tradition known as shibari or kinbaku. Prior basic knowledge about negotiation of consent and rope safety is required (for example through having completed Pathway I), but otherwise the workshop is suitable for complete beginners. No pre-negotiated practice partner required.

03 August 2024

Workshop: The world of Power & Surrender with Jonathan and Bas.

This workshop will be fun for beginners and ConSensual graduates alike. Whether it is the first time or the xxx time you will discover a new flavor of yourself and your inner dominant and/or submissive. Experience a journey into power exchange in youself and with others, discover the power of presence with your eyes and energy, and understand the joy in surrender. Become enchanted, discover new avenues, and bring your "naughiest wish if you knew the other will say yes" We will work with different toys, sound, eyes, hands, and sheer energy! And most certainly with fun & innocence! Bring your collar & toys if you wish (and we have plenty too!)


07 December 2024

Workshop: we proudly present a workshop with 'the Traveling Sadist' Bas, one of our cherished team members. If you want to explore the liberation of true love & pain, Bas is the master not to be missed. Afternoon workshop on "Spanking: A journey of pain and pleasure".

Bring out your paddles, leather gloves, floggers, canes ánd do have a good look around your kitchen, everything you need for a juicy spanking session is there >> wooden spoons, spatula’s, pancake flippers and whatnots. Also, don’t limit yourself to just the physical, what about sounds? We will go through the practicalities, how-what-where and briefly look into the why before we journey deeper into setting up a exchange session in which both you and a partner have the chance to experience this.


2025 Dates will be anounced in November/December 2024


Cancellation Policy: As numbers are restricted, registration is a firm commitment sealed by your payment. You can cancel until 10 days before the party. In case of sudden sickness you may transfer to a later date.


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