Tantric BDSI Temple Parties:

The ConSensual temple party is for those who are ConSensual graduates and want to regularly enjoy the atmosphere, love, and connection of ConSensual, expand into more embodiment, play to their hearts’ desires, find others topractice with during this night and go into bliss, healing, flight or pleasure together. The temple is not a workshop but a free temple play space. Linde, Jonathan and team members will hold space and create the safety and expansion field for you. We are there to hold the space, help you negotiate, answer a question, maybe play with you, but we will not process individuals. Participation is on your own turf and responsibility. We will usually offer a workshop on that same day for deeper exploration and practice. Those workshops are either given by Linde & Jonathan or one of the experienced professional team members.

Start of Workshop: 15:00 to 18:00

Start of temple at 19:30 sharp with a joint ritual to allow you to reconnect, open up and feel into your body.

End: latest 1:00 am, spaceholding stops at 12:00

Food: we will provide light snacks, water, and tea. You need to have eaten before the temple and if you attend the workshop bring ready made food with you to eat before the temple starts. Please remember ConSensual is a drug and alcohol free space!

What to bring: your sexy outfits, house shoes and socks for the tatami in the temple (no shoes! sorry your heals need to stay at home); your toys, a blanket, and a towel to cover mattrasses is a must! Have a fully sealable water bottle with you (no cups in the temple space).

Where? At Casa LoJeMA, the home of ConSensual

Accomodation: we have 9 beds available in 'Heaven' (above the temple space), on a first come first serve basis, the rooms of Casa LoJeMa are not open for temple parties. You HAVE to bring a sheet, your duvet or sleeping bag and a pillow. Costs: 30,- pppn. Latest check-out time 11:00 (out of the house).

Costs: 80,- Euros for Temple Party (including snacks) and 60,- Euros for the workshop, payable in advance on a bank account your receive after registering.

Numbers: 30 participants maximum

Next Temple Parties:

25 May 2024

Workshop: Shibari with Sam! A jewel not to be missed with the most present divinely inspired Shibari master we have ever met.You find info on Sam on our team page.

This workshop will introduce you to the Japanese bondage tradition known as shibari or kinbaku. Prior basic knowledge about negotiation of consent and rope safety is required (for example through having completed Pathway I), but otherwise the workshop is suitable for complete beginners. No pre-negotiated practice partner required.

03 August 2024

Workshop: to be anounced in due course

07 December 2024

Workshop: to be anounced in due course


2025 Dates will be anounced in November/December 2024


Please note: the temple party is for ConSensual graduates. This is not a beginners' space.To participate you need to have completed at least Pathway I to ensure you are familiar with the embodied consent taught in ConSensual, our techniques and the sacred use of toys in tantric BDSI. If you are new to ConSensual you need to ask us before registering! We will need to hear how you are familiar with tantric BDSI, deep consent work, and how you understand the rules of ConSensual. You need to at least have done a course with one of the tantra or BDSM teachers known to Jonathan (or be invited by one of our team who vouches for you). Write us an e-mail we will not hold pre-conversations with new participants.

Cancellation Policy: As numbers are restricted, registration is a firm commitment sealed by your payment. You can cancel until 10 days before the party. In case of sudden sickness you may transfer to a later date.


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