Pathway I: The Art and Dance of Pleasure and Play

Our first pathway is an Initiation into the magic secrets of tantric BDSI (Bondage, Dominance, Surrender, Impact Play). A true art and dance! For you to shed light into all parts of you and be welcomed with all of you! Fully allowing your fantasies and your pleasure, shedding unhelpful prohibitions and suppressions.Putting Innocence back into your play, finding your special beautiful form of kink and discovering sacred practices and tools.Deeply understanding consent and what needs clearing out for you to feel your body’s consent and wisdom. Come and a get a whiff of how anchoring your dominance empowers you in life and allows you to surrender to life’s calling. And begin to understand the healing power of consent work, heart releases, and powerful body work that makes you find your seedling of safety in your body.

During the first Pathway in ConSensual you will have the opportunity to become aware of your boundaries, your consent, the power in your third chakra and your surrender (in life!). Begin a journey of shamanic healing integration and trauma releasing body work. And discover the sacred practices of tantric BDSI (Bondage, Dominance/Surrender, and Impact Play). You will get a taste for the whole Pathway Journes: healing and integration, power and surrender, and embodying divine spirit. Pathway I: Art and Dance of Pleasure and Play is a deep, consecrated, shamanic, spiritual, and just simply yummy space that will allow you to fully tap into the erotic mystery of “flight energy” when you fully respect and know your consent, and experience pleasure, joy, trauma healing, and heart expansion through playing.  We emphasise experiential learning and exploration, steps towards embodiment and integrating, with loving support and care for healing processes to happen. All you need to bring is some experience, either tantra, or self-development, and be open to the sacred tools and implements of tantric BDSI that we explore and if you wish use during Initiation. 

The retreat usually starts 19:00 on Thursday evening (arrival as of 17:30 but no later than 18:00) and include evening and morning program, ending at 17:00 on the Sunday. After registration and payment you will receive all necessary information on location, accommodation, food and what to bring and prepare. ConSensual retreats are held in our own Casa LoJeMa (near Leuven).

Next Retreats:

4th to 7th 'July 2024

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3rd to 6th October 2024

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20th to 23rd September 2024 (in a private venue in Waregem), contact us for link to organiser

12th to 15th June 2025

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16th to 19th October 2025

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A glimpse into our retreats

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500,- Euros 2024 & 530,- in 2025 including breaks and breakfast, plus accomodation and food in the venue (between 45,- and 60,- ppn for 3 nights + ca 95,- for food)

Pathway I  Retreats start on a Thursday evening and end on Sunday around 17:00. After registration and payment you will receive all necessary information on location, accommodation, food and what to bring and prepare. ConSensual retreats are held in our own Casa LoJeMa (near Leuven), a beautiful 1000 spuare meter old farm, easily accessible by public transport and with a big parking. Large parks and beautiful nature invites for walks during breaks just a couple of streets behind Casa LoJeMa. We will be working in the large temple hall. Casa LoJeMa has beautiful, simple, and nicely designed accommodation for 18 - 20 participants in mostly shared accomodation. Not all participants can stay at the house and we give the accomodation on a first come first serve basis. There are hotels and B&Bs in driving distance. We retain the right to change the venue if necessary.

If you feel the calling to join for the whole Pathway Journey 2025, then register with a 10% discount. If you register for the package before your Pathway I we will give you a 10% discount via your accomodation costs.

First round  Pathway Journey 2024/25 (21-24 Nov 24; 13 to 16 Feb; 24 to 27 April 25).


Second round Pathway Journey 2025 (9-12 Jan; 25 20-23 March; 15-18 May 25)


If you buy a package but need to swap one of the dates between the rounds you may contact us, we will do our best.

  • I so love Jonathan and Linde! Their love and connection is so perfect. I loved them at first sight and know I wanted more. This Pathway I was fun, insightful, deep and liberating. I look forward to doing, being at Pathways II, III and IV. The safe, very safe easy open bubble is wonderful to be able to relax and come into process and release. Much love and gratitude.

  • I’ve touched shadows and parts of me I knew are there. Parts so strong, so dark, so intense and so beautiful. So powerful it is scary to let them out. They are alive in me. I carry them, cherish them. I will gently inquire into them and ask what they need. I welcome them with open arms, curiosity, to fully live. Who am I?

  • 'It was an amazing and wonderful weekend for me!!! I felt real jummie and amazing pleasure for the first time in my life. And it was soooo amazing. I can still feel it in my body. Ŕrrrrrrrr.

    And I had so much fun too!! Thank you, Thank you, Thank you!'

  • This is shaking the collective to its core. Healing all trauma into the divine, finally experiencing Human Beings, men and women, enjoying their own divinity embodied beyond what words can express. Respecting and honouring all and everything. Thank you so much for the amazing music as well. Big big hug and love.

  • Pathway I is a real deep dive and the work you do is very transformational. Jonathan and Linde (and the whole team) are one of the best facilitators I’ve had so far. They really can hold space for every situation that comes up. Every being and everyone is welcome and they embody that. I loved most the sacred and ritual character of the program which makes it very healing and transformational.

  • Jonathan and Linde created a safe space and a structure to dive deep into my desires, my resistance and to look deeper into myself. I have seen deep transformations, beautiful openings. I have seen people truly in their deepest self. A testimony of the presence Linde and Jonathan bring to the space.

  • I felt so safe to explore and dive deep into sexuality. Jonathan facilitates in a brilliant way full of unconditional love together with Linde and the whole team who made it a playful pleasure exploration where everything is welcome and possible.  Thank you so much. Love to you!

  • This Pathway I into The Art and Dance of Pleasure and Play: A transmission of beautiful energy…showing the ways…taking us to a new level. You two did exact that: live it! My cup is filled with Vibrant Energy & Love! My heart is opened, I feel connected to the source.

  • Beautiful space of transformational, energetic, spiritual and love based play. Thank you for the truth you have brought in my life.

  • I have been doing tantra for almost 6 years now and have been to many workshops, retreats and individual sessions but nothing comes close to what I have experienced at the Pathway I  retreat with Jonathan and Linde.  I have been in quite a negative energy for several years, feeling blocked, my mind foggy, a certain lethargy and so on.  When I arrived at the retreat I carried this energy with me and felt frustrated and unable to connect with my body and feelings for about the first day.  Then I was invited to volunteer for the heart chakra opening showcase which was an incredibly intense and unique experience.  It did exactly what the name says: my heart was opened, I could connect with myself again and energy started flowing.  From then on my experience was quite different.  At the end of the weekend I felt like all the heaviness and brain fog had been lifted.  The days after I could notice big changes in my daily life.  I felt more energetic again, taking action, feeling motivated, no more worries, more resilience and much more.  I haven't felt like this in years and two weeks after the retreat it hasn't changed whereas with other retreats the effect kind of withers away after a couple of days. Needless to say that I registered for the entire pathways journey without hesitation.  Thank you Jonathan, Linde and team for making this possible!

  • Consensual was a mind & body shifting retreat. It is completely different then the retreats I did before because the sensuality part is so strong. It puts a big light on old patterns which I can handle in daily life but during the retreat these old patterns became so visible and sensitive; fully in the sweet spot and no possibility to flee or to freeze. I got fully into it: into my shame, vulnerability, feeling of rejection, being fully present and I got through it. I had quite some judgments about other people and especially about myself which became reframed during this retreat.At some moments I had that great feeling of being completely “free”.' Jonathan, thank you for your surrender and following your path. I am very grateful that I met you and you are in my heart. My wish is that a lot of people will open up for your pathways to discover the magic of life which you show us by letting us experience ConSensual. And also thanks for the team who is beside you ❣️

  • My whole body feels so alive, and also my yoni, wow. I love it. Haven't felt this sexual energy for a while. I feel more free and more me. And still so much to discover. I am sure that we will meet again. Ooh and those ropes!! Big big smile on my face. This is amazing, I am still enjoying it and also want more of this. These great people together, playing, exploring, being free, in a loving space, where all is welcome. That's how I want to live life!

  • Safe and sacred space, outstanding space holding, lots of joy and play, deep healings (for others) and great to be part of that. Love the focus on the energetic part in all of this also as the starting point of the exercises. Thank you all! Love

  • It took a little getting used to as this retreat is quite out of the box but I experienced this as a unique space were all dark and light, trauma and desires, sexual and Devine energy are welcomed hold in a lot of wisdom, love and compassion by excellent very skilled professionals & devoted team. All normal, abnormal, freaks, dragons, angels human and non-human beings are so very welcomed in this healing temple with the intention to bring light & love &openness to all pain & life in general.

  • Amazing how fast this retreat past and how complete the program felt. In this short time I felt so safe with the authenticity, expansion, 200 % presence and space holding of Jonathan, Linde and the angel assistants. This was the setting of allowing myself a big emotional breakthrough, working through shame, energetic releases and exploring new fields of play I never thought I would feel safe with. I feel big gratitude!

  • Coming into contact with BDSI was like opening a door to a room in a house which I have never visited before. I learned to recognise, channel, play and transmute energies of dominance and submission. I also learnt to be able to surrender and trust someone in the bondage exercise, passing over this newly gained wisdom while relating to someone, the getting to know my limits with butt play and allowing to circle back to my playfield where care, intensity, gentle touch and some dairy spanking is involved. I carry all of this forth in my daily life and in the person I am. Gratitude.

  • When it comes to consent and learning how to give and get consent, my life will never be the same. This is something every human being should be able to learn, from a very early age. But if you haven’t, let Jonathan help you. It makes the world a better place.'

  • The retreat is being hosted from a beautiful heart space. Safety and love are the starting points for exploration and then the juiciness comes in. All embodied beautifully by Jonathan. Exploring the dominant and submissive parts of myself. Feeling so incredibly empowered. Using a (big variety) of tools, really fun! But also creating a heart opening and an intimate, deep connection with my partner. 

  • I felt held and supported and seen. The facilitators and amazing team did an amazing job at keeping the retreat open and safe. People could explore their desires, their fears, everything without being judged. I learned a lot about my body, my desires and my boundaries. I can’t imagine a better place for experiencing this. Thank you so much.


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